What makes people charming?

How do you get a charming attitude?

If you look up "charming" in the dictionary, you'll see that it not only has references to strong attraction, but to spells and magic.

• Talking less, Talking calmly.
• It’s not what you say, but how you say it. Always be cool, calm and collected when you speak. A deep voice, that commands you to be heard and to be listened to. Speak in a way of experience.
• Being respectful towards subordinates and strangers.
• Maintaining a good eye contact while speaking. Being able to hold eye contact is something we are meant to do, not only is it sexy but it lets the other person know all your attention is on them. Don’t be afraid to stare when the time and setting is right.

• Keeping a faint smile throughout a conversation. Not a fake or forced smile, but a genuine smile. Be real, and smile only when it’s natural.
• Exuding confidence in their gait and posture.
• Admitting their flaws and mistakes with confidence and humility.
• Not being too affected or excited by the presence of the opposite gender.
• You can always look good, but when you feel good you always look better. Women notice this, so let free and have a good time. Don’t take yourself so seriously.
• Always be open, and take up space. Demand authority and respect, and it will certainly come your way. Don’t be afraid to let a women you’re with know that you find her sexy, present it non verbally.
• Don’t be overly touchy, but do it in a confident and assertive manner. Like putting your hand on a women’s back when guiding her, or even something simple as a handshake. Master this skill.                                                                            

• Doing what they consider 'right' and not caring too much about other's opinions.
• Living happily and not complaining too much about life.
• Be clean, and dress nice. Stand out, but not in a way that screams for validation.
• Making fun of yourself.

• Inspire confidence: They always encourage people and try to make people feel good about themselves.
• They think about what you are saying, and not about what they will respond to you. They listen like their life depends on what you are saying. They make people feel important.
• They ask open questions.
• A million dollar smile and a strong handshake.